Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?
For me, BDSM and my submission go hand in hand. I’ve stated several times that how far I am willing to go with it varies from partner to partner, but regardless BDSM is a definite part of my submission.
There is a part of me that is very much a masochist, especially with James. I was at a new club he works at once a month, watching Sir do his thing when he rolled over to me and, as per usual, dug his nails into my chest. This normally makes me scream. Literally. This time he was nicer. It hurt, but I barely squeaked.
It threw me off balance. That is not my norm. My norm is whimpering, pushing into his hand but squirming away all at once. I wanted it harder.
The bondage… That can be questionable. I am far from a rope bunny. I am slightly claustrophobic. I enjoy the exchange of power of being bound down. I relish someone else taking control. But don’t tie me so that my leg is tied to my neck. Don’t render me a rope mummy. Don’t mummify me in general, actually.
We talked about discipline already.. And how much of a top/sadist I am (or rather am not)…
This answer is horribly short. But I suppose that the question was simple.
As always, I am yours